I've been playing a lot of FB Scrabble lately. I finally have an opponent that can beat me 50% of the time (or more)! You might think that is a bad thing but its not. It has made me a much more skillful player. Its been an opportunity to exercise my lazy brain and I've discovered new words and strategies. As much as we don't ever like to lose or fail at anything, it is a vital part of growing mentally, emotionally and spiritually if we treat it as a learning opportunity. Next time you lose or fail at something give thanks for the opportunity to grow.